Love is a an interesting thing...
it wouldn't be an overstatement to call it the most interesting and exciting thing in life..
Everything about love is pure and gr8 - just like being repeatedly described and exaggerated in the movies.
There is one downside of it - THE STARTING PROBLEM. Love like parental love, or brotherly love is generally always there (at least in my case :) ). Since the family love is always there - it is not that exciting and it does not have the starting problem! But the love in the context of lovers has this starting problem.
Its the ultimate appraisal.
I hate appraisals coz it has to judge at least one of the team mates as a loser, which can end up subjective to a great degree.
To prepare to tell a love is much like preparing for the ultimate Appraisal - The most common complaint about appraisal is "IT IS TOO SUBJECTIVE" - But in the case of decision about a lover, the subjective nature is inherent and cannot be complained about!
This problem is engulfed in a web of so many other issues like ego,fear that it doesn't surface that easily.
But without all theses problems the process of love will be so mechanical that it will not be exciting.. In other words, only when u r ready to risk it all - can u reach the fruit of being Happily ever after .. or ?